Anonymous said: When I'm having sex with my girlfriend, altought I do everything right and spend a lot of time in the foreplay (ex. I do oral sex and finger, ect), she can't reach the orgasm no matter what we do. She just feels really frustraded and she tends to give up because I'm tired or she's tired. How can I help her? She doesn't say it's my fault but I can't help but feel it is.

find her g-spot and rub her clit. i find myself orgasming easily in the position doggy style while rubbing my own clit! but really, it’s not your fault. girls often have trouble orgasming during sex but we still have a wonderful time

~sammie~


When I am stimulated on my clit for a while, I have to pull away. I don’t want to but my body’s reflex is to get away for a second or two. Is this normal?

I think you’re stimulating it the wrong way…
-Diana

hi, I hope you understand what I’m trying to say. well I’ve been making out with my best friend for a while, and he loves to fingering me, almost all the time I like it but I can’t have an orgasms even If he try it for an hour but when I masturbate I achieve an orgasm easily, he gets upset with himself and I just can’t help this, I’ve told him that I can help him by stimulating my own clit but he says that’s pointless, I’ve tried to make a lot of contraction with my legs but it doesn’t works, he obviously turns me on a lot and is an expert in foreplays but I can’t have a fucking orgasm. I have no problem with not having an orgasm but he feels like shit cause he can’t give it to me, (even when I can’t have an orgasm I have pleasure with him) what can I do??

some people just can’t orgasm. he could be hitting the wrong spots, so maybe use your hands to lead him the right way. if you really want to make him feel better and still can’t orgasm, you could always fake your orgasm…

~nicole :)

is it weird that whenever i have sex,i get more turned on when he’s fingering than when its actually sex?i mean,the sex is amazing and all,but its a little odd when i hear EVERYONE saying sex is the best thing ever,and i can only think of “okkk but for me fingering is ten times hotter!”

have him rub your clit while he’s inside of you… that makes things even hotter

jamal


Anonymous said: My boyfriend is going to finger me at the movies, with our friends there. What should I wear to make it easy for him, and what do I do about noise???

A skirt / dress would make it easy. Trying to cover up your moans would be super hot…

Brandon


how do turn a girl on? any tips? does it feel bad for a girl when I finger her while she is on her period? does it hurt or is it just uncomfortable? marry christmas!

Sorry for the late reply, and Merry Christmas to you as well! In order to turn a girl on, you must give lots of foreplay. Tease her and make her want it. I love it when guys grab my boobs and play with them and suck/lick them, that probably turns me on the most. 

It depends whether or not it feels bad for a girl who is being fingered on her period. Some do get really sensitive and some says it feels even better. So check out your girl.

-Diana

ok so this sounds weird but I have this almost like a fear of not being tight enough. anyway I can get tighter in the next few days???Like really fast

don’t finger yourself or do anything that would stretch your vay jay jay

~sammie~

I have a quetion… Everytime I finger myself I bleed, how can I fix that? I’m no longer a virgin but only did it twice. I really want you help because it’s kind of embaressing!

The more you do it, the less you will bleed each time. You’ll eventually get used to it.

-Diana


Anonymous said: im 17 and ive never had an orgasm... ive had sex a few times with like 4 different people. my boyfriend right nowis a virgin and when he fingers me i dont feel any pleasure at all... is something wrong with me? he just doesnt turn me on. please helppp. also ive never had sex sober, could that be why ive never really liked it?

Only a few times having sex? It should be fine and you should probably have sex sober

Brandon



Anonymous said: Im a 17 year old female, Im pretty sexually active but I've always had issues with being figured, I really want to be but whenever my boyfriend tries my body tenses up and I always grab his hand and pull it away, it's almost like a twitch. Is there anything I can do to relax more when it comes to this?

try taking deep breaths and talking to him naturally. you will loosen up

jamal






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