Anonymous said: So I usually shave my private parts. But I don't know how to make sure I get everything off. How can I shave my vagina to get all the hair off?

I just shaved mine like yesterday. Basically I used a scissor first to cut it off to the shortest possible and then put shaving cream all over it and shaved it off using a small mirror.


Anonymous said: Hey so I'm a 16, soon 17 year old girl. I've never had sex or masturbated ever. I've never felt a need to do any of them, and I don't really get turned on. I haven't even used a tampon. Anyway so I guess I'm wondering if it's weird that I haven't masturbated and/or feel the need to.

No, it’s perfectly normal. We’re all different in our own ways.

- Diana

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i’m almost 16 and i’ve had sex with one guy, six times. but i don’t really feel all pleasured when i have sex. the only time i’ve ever felt pleasured a little was when we tried doggy-style. do you know what could be wrong with me? i also don’t really feel all pleasured when i’m being fingered, and eaten out either…

The more you fuck the more you will start to enjoy it. My experience with sex was in the beginning it didn’t really feel pleasurable at all. I was doing it with someone I really like but just wanted to feel the hype of it. After about the 10th time I started to enjoy it more and more. Felt this urge to have sex everywhere I go, even outside for example. The best advice I can give you is to just have sex more and try to feel the passion in it. 

- Diana

ive been with my boyfriend for over a year. im 16 hes 18. about 3 months into our relationship we started having sex. it was great but then we had sex without a condom. he pulled out early and we were completely fine..but then he got into his mind that we couldve gotten pregnant. i took the morning after pill, but it really effected him. we havent had sex since. he refuses to touch me at all because everytime he does it makes me want to have sex and he knows that. its a very sensitive subject for him and will rarely be open to talk about it. i love him with all of my heart, but i want to give him that part of me again. one of my male friends started giving me some attention in that way. i would never cheat on him, but i didnt exactly tell him to ‘stop’. since then i have been honest with my boyfriend and told him about the other guy and he was crushed. he has started being more open about having sex again but i feel like its only because other guys were wanting to and i wasnt pushing them away. i dont want us to have sex and him resent me because he wasnt ready. what do i do!?!?

Well, sex is not good if only one person wants it; it needs to be a mutual kind of thing. And I don’t know where you live but here it’s illegal to have sex with someone over 18 if you’re a minor. Anyway, when the time is right, he will want to have sex with you again. Or you could just seduce him. And trying going to third base or something and slowly getting closer and closer towards sex.


k well i have a bug insecurity ,and its my stretch marks, im only 15 and i feel insecure about it i look in the mirror and i cant notice it sometimes but other times i can and i just hate it and whenever im changing i feel like everyone is just staring at me ,because most girls i know ,pretty much all girls i know dont have them and  i feel like im so young to have them and im really active to and i wanna know ,is there a way for them to go away?

Confidence is key. You can attract people by having a high self confidence level, but not to the point where it’s arrogance. Keep your posture straight and they should go away.


i have sex about a month with a guy. it was sex in the first date, i just wanted to fuck him. the true is it was the first time i talk to him and the first time we hang out…But i really really like the sex, it was perfect, we fucked so wild, but at the end he wanted me in his shoulder and i get a WTF face, yes i slept a few minutes in his shoulder then we turn around !! i just fuck and then sleep with any skin contact you know?  for me was wired slept with skin contact!! ..i have done this like 10 time before and i cant take him away from my mind!!. then days before sex he came to my house for something fast.. he told me i was so sexy, he kiss me and play with my butt. then he goes

he is a player,  im sick of games and i just fuck when i want, do i need play for more sex??. he dont talk to me much like he does after sex. if i need to play, what kind of thing i need to do for take him crazy??

tell me your point of view boy! 

Not sure what you are trying to ask, but the no contact rule works 50/50 chance in this case.


So Im a guy with lots of fetish. Me and my girlfriend both enjoy it, going rough and hard, oral, doing it on public, role playing, specs, dressup and other shit. I wanna try anal, but she doesnt. First time I tried putting it in, she cried cause of the pain and I got blue balls. Any advice on how to convince her/make it less painful.

You need to make sure she is RELAXED and COMFORTABLE with doing it, or else it WILL hurt. Always make sure you are using more than enough lube. Your vagina self lubricates, but your anus does not. Start playing with her anus - it might be weird or different for her to feel you around that area at first. You can help relax her by kissing her and calming her down. It is important that she stays calm the entire time and actually wants to try it, not just you. 


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My boyfriend recently moved to Florida so we can’t pleasure each other. I’ve sent him pictures but I feel like because it’s usually alway the same thing that he gets bored of them. Can you help me? I need to know what kind of positions an what not that I can take pictures in?

The secret to a great long-distance relationship is great sex. That means tech sex.

Hand + phone = good sex, at least theoretically. You can have a pretty decent sex life with someone even if you live halfway around the world. A relationship can’t thrive forever on long-distance sex, but it can go a long way in between real visits. The hardest part sometimes is beginning. It can feel a little intimidating getting started, but it is very rewarding, so stick with it. Sometimes long-distance sex is even more awesome because you take risks and let yourself go in a way that you might not when you are together face-to-face.

Instant Messaging

  • Good way to dip your toe in the pool, but lacks the immediacy of verbal/audio communication.

Cell Phone

  • Debby Herbenick, blogger at has a great article on how to have great phone sex
  • Send photos. You can send a progression of pics in real time as you get aroused, and of course they can be viewed again later when you’re not in touch.
  • Dirty texting. Always fun, especially at times when it’s not safe! This is a great way to build anticipation for later.
  • Vibrator. There’s a new iphone app from that turns the iphone into a vibrator. The vibrations are not very strong, but the developers’ intent is that you’ll use it slyly while on the subway, in line at Starbucks, etc.

Skype Sex

  • This is the biggie, as far as I’m concerned. Talk dirty face to face. Use the webcam and your imagination to turn your partner (and yourself) on.

Synching Up Porn

  • You can find porn that is relationship-oriented, appealing to both men and women. Watch it on your laptops at the same time while on your cell phones.

Internet Sex Toys

  • Sounds like the technology has a way to go here, but there are devices that communicate through software online.
  • The most popular combination is the Interactive Fleshlight for him and the Sinulator (rabbit vibrator) for her. When he manipulates the Fleshlight, she feels it in her vibrator. It currently requires interacting with a goofy dashboard on your computer, but the whole field of teledildonics (ridiculous word, I know) is growing rapidly.


So me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year now and I can’t come from penetration AT ALL. I was wondering is there anything that we could do to make it happen?

Like I said earlier, it’s completely normal that you are unable to come from vaginal intercourse. Only about 25% of women are able to come from intercourse.

The reason? During intercourse (missionary, doggie, woman-on-top, whatever), the penis does not directly stimulate the clitoris, the organ responsible for women’s orgasms. Sexuality experts reassure couples that the woman’s inability to experience orgasm during intercourse is (1) very common, (2) no reflection on her sexual responsiveness, (3) no reflection on the man’s sexual technique, and (4) no reflection the woman’s feelings about the relationship.

Sexuality authorities also encourage couples to let go of the idea that women “should” have orgasms during intercourse. They encourage men to help women to orgasm using their fingers, hand, tongue, or a vibrator or other sex toys.

But many couple wish the woman could come during intercourse. The good news is that there are easy, loving ways to boost women’s chance of orgasm during intercourse. The easiest ways involve the woman-on-top and rear entry (doggie) positions. Orgasm is more challenging in the man-on-top (missionary) position, but a minor adjustment makes it considerably more likely.

Woman-on-Top. The woman kneels over the man’s hips. The man makes a fist and places it at the junction of the lovers’ pelvises. The woman leans forward, presses her clitoris against the fist and moves in any way that erotically excites her. Or the woman or man presses a vibrator into her clitoris.

Rear entry. The woman stands and bends at the waist or kneels on all fours and the man stands or kneels behind her. The man or woman can reach the woman’s clitoris and gently caress it, or either the man or woman can press a vibrator against her clitoris.

Man-on-Top. In this position, the woman’s orgasm is least likely, but the “coital alignment technique” (CAT) helps. The CAT was first suggested in 1988 by sex researcher Edward Eichel. Instead of the man lying on top of the woman chest-to-chest with his penis moving more or less horizontally, the man shifts so that his chest is closer to one of the woman’s shoulders. As a result, his penis moves in a more up-and-down direction. The man rides higher on the woman’s pelvis, and the bone at the base of his penis (pelvic bone) makes more contact with the clitoris. This increases direct clitoral stimulation and may provide enough to trigger the woman’s orgasm.

Happy experimentation!


So, lately i’ve been feeling like My boyfriend and I need to learn some new moves when it comes to sex. It’s just been the same thing every time we do fuck, it gets kinda boring. Any suggestions ? 

Whether you like the slow and steady pace of missionary, or the exotic view you get when she’s riding you reverse cowgirl, every man has his favorite sex positions.

Erotic Couple Embracing

Study up, and this could be you.

But when it comes to showing her what you’ve got in the sack, there’s a time and place for everything. And if you plan on keeping things adventurous behind closed doors, it’s essential that you go above and beyond your favorite go-to moves.

So what’s your Rx for boring sex? Switch it up. And with a little help from the new book, Sex Position Sequences: From Erotic Start to Spine-Tingling Stretch to Mind-Blowing Finish—we’ll show you how.

Master the five moves in this sequence to have the hottest sex of your life—guaranteed.

1. Lickety-Split

Start off by taking a trip South of the border. Have her lay on her back, legs spread apart, with her knees slightly bent. In this position, you’ll have full access from the top of her vagina to the bottom—so feel free to explore. Use your fingers to pull her outer labia apart and gently lick every inch of her. Make your way North to tease and caress her clitoris with the tip of your tongue. And most importantly, make sure to take your time.

2. Make Your MoveBasic missionary

Continue the oral action until she’s near climax. Just when you’re about to push her over the edge, assume the missionary position by sliding between her open legs. Once you’re inside of her, wrap her legs around you for support. But don’t get too comfortable— you won’t be in this position for long. Use it as a way to heat things up: Tangle your hands up in her hair, kiss her hard, and nibble on her bottom lip. Once you find a good rhythm, take it to the next level. (You’ll always be able to take her to the next level with all the tips found in theMen’s Health Big Book of Sex.)

3. Meeting on the Bridge

Now rise to your knees and help her get into the bridge position. She should be facing up and using all four limbs to lift her body off the bed. Place her hands on your shoulders for support while her feet are planted on the inside of your knees. From there, lift her hips up to meet yours. She should squeeze you between her inner thighs to keep steady as you thrust. This position’s ideal for G-spot stimulation, but should only be held for a minute or two, since it takes a ton of strength on her part to stay upright.

4. Down You Go

Make your third transition back down to the bed. Have her lie on her back and hold on to the edge of the bed as you bring her legs up against your core. Straddle her while in the kneeling position, rest back against your feet, and hold her in place by securing your hand on her thigh. While you’re inside her, use your free hand to rub and caress her nipples. (For killer tips on how to stimulate her most sensitive parts, learn How to Touch Her Breasts.)

5. Running for Home

To finish the sequence, move into the final position by rising to your knees and lifting both her legs. Place your hands around her ankles and extend your arms out to the side, so you’re now holding her legs open spread-eagle. She’ll be more comfortable, and you’ll be more able to control how fast and deep you thrust. Plus, you’ll get a great view of her breasts and her face during climax.

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